Feburary 19, 2009

WOW!!!! (long pause) One of my boyz tipped me off tonight while I was at dinner I say around 10pm, like “dude go onto TMZ.com and check out the picture of Rihanna’s face after the aftermath of her & Chris Brown’s incident.” So as soon as I got home (11:30pm) first thing I did was log on.

BOTTOM LINE: No woman/mujer deserves this!!! PERIOD!!!  I don’t care what people say about Rihanna. No body personally knows her so all we do is base it on the media & the things we hear. Some say she is a bit*ch, stuck up, diva-ish, conceited, SO WHAT, NO ONE deserves this. So many thoughts are going through my head right now (anger, numbness, confusion, skepticism)…….I don’t take sides because, first and foremost I am a fair person & I don’t know exactly what went down that night, but I do know when someone has totally & completely crossed a boundary and that boundary was R-E-S-P-E-C-T!

Abuse it totally unacceptable, emotional & physical! I’ve been in a  complicated (lets just use that word) relationship before and let me tell you when you get out of a relationship like that you become 10 times a stronger women, because you look into the mirror one day and say ” I Am worth so much more”, I admire strong women like that, and women that are & feel weak because I was you before!  Have the courage to know your worth it!